Fwd: [bmdc-wg] Stop the hate! Stop tearing each other down! Enough is enough!



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From: Heidi Olson <bmdc@lists.riseup.net>
Date: Fri, Jun 9, 2023 at 10:35 AM
Subject: [bmdc-wg] Stop the hate! Stop tearing each other down! Enough is enough!
To: bmdc@lists.riseup.net <bmdc@lists.riseup.net>


This is all heartbreaking!  Everyone of us is here because we care about people.  We don't get paid, it's not for fun, it's toxic and draining and damaging to mental health in general.  I care about everyone!  Can we realize that there is not a FAIR option on the table right now and that the government is to blame!  It's 2023 time for society to change and time for the government who has unlimited money for war to fund the changes that need to be made in order for justice & equality for ALL!  Let's stop fighting each other and demand real solutions.  Don't you think this is what they want?  With us at each other's throats and setting up situations that can never be fair for all they are purposefully setting us up to do exactly what we are doing.  While they sit back and laugh and what the show.

Admitting that there are biological differences between the male and female body is not anti trans!  Of course trans women are women but that does not change these differences in the body.  

If you are saying that a person who believes it's unfair to have biological women and trans women compete against each other in sports due to these differences that this person is anti trans, if that were true than my neighbors and good friends who have a transgender son would be anti trans for not allowing their child to play highschool football with biological males due to the great risk of injury to their transgender son because of these biological differences!   The school would have allowed my friend's son who is a transgender boy to play as he wanted to be a football player but in the end there was no denying the great risk to him being injured due to once again these biological differences.  

Is any of this fair?

NO it's not, it's not fair for anyone!  It's a lose-lose situation with no good solution being offered.  

Do I have the right answer to make everything fair?

No I don't, I wish I did!

Some ideas;
Single bathrooms and shower stalls for all
(No labels) a bathroom is a bathroom 

Sports having more sections than just men women girl boy

Sports designated  by body mass & strength rather than sex & gender

Idk but most importantly everyone deserves to be respected and treated fairly.  I wish we can be more respectful to each other.  I wish we could realize we are being set up to fight each other because then they (the government) has succeeded in demolishing our work that depends on our cooperation and unity with each other. 


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