Fwd: [bmdc-wg] I am leaving BMDC

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From: Michael Heichman <michaelheichman@gmail.com>
Date: Mon, Jun 12, 2023 at 4:20 PM
Subject: Re: [bmdc-wg] I am leaving BMDC
To: <xulingkelley@gmail.com>
Cc: John Harris <john.r.harris@verizon.net>, BMDC Working Group <bmdc@lists.riseup.net>, Stevie Downie <downie.steve@yahoo.com>, Robert Michael Pittsley <rpittsley6@gmail.com>

Lita,

Thanks for clarifying.

Yes, I did ask for guidelines for the usage of our lists.

Yes, I did not initiate discussion on the general list.

Mike

On Jun 12, 2023, at 10:19 AM, Lita Xú Líng Kelley (via bmdc Mailing List) <bmdc@lists.riseup.net> wrote:

That's not true John.  We voted to create a discussion list.   Mike asked for written guidelines,   You refused and asserted yourself in your typical authoritarian manner.   POST THE WRITTEN RULES!  They do not exist!

 

It was JANE that posted transphobic rhetoric to the work list first and Mike responded,   

On Mon, Jun 12, 2023 at 9:30 AM <john.r.harris@verizon.net> wrote:

A week ago, Mike violated the list rules voted on by BMDC with impunity. Since then, others felt that the rules we vote on do not need to be respected. This led to a chain discussion on the BMDC work list. We have seen the results. Mike has only himself to blame. The discuss list was created to conduct our internal political debates among those who choose to be on the discuss list. The decisions we make collectively should be respected. 

John

-----Original Message-----
From: MICHAEL HEICHMAN" (via bmdc Mailing List) <bmdc@lists.riseup.net>
To: Stevie Downie <downie.steve@yahoo.com>; Robert Michael Pittsley <rpittsley6@gmail.com>; michaelheichman@gmail.com; lita Xú Líng Kelley <xulingkelley@gmail.com>
Cc: BMDC Working Group <bmdc@lists.riseup.net>
Sent: Sun, Jun 11, 2023 9:54 pm
Subject: Re: [bmdc-wg] I am leaving BMDC

BMDC:

First they came for the socialists, and I did not speak out—because I was not a socialist.

Then they came for the trade unionists, and I did not speak out—because I was not a trade unionist.

Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out—because I was not a Jew.

Then they came for me—and there was no one left to speak for me.

—Martin Niemöller

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Stevie has been an active member of our group and he just painfully announced that he is leaving our group.

I am in pain and cry out, "NO"! "NO"!  "NO"! "NO"! "NO"!

This is what happens when we permit and defend transphobia in our group.

At the start of our last meeting, we approved the agenda without dissent. David did not request that we discuss trans issues. David did not say anything for most of the meeting about any agenda item. Near the end of the meeting, David spoke for the first time and dropped his anti-trans bomb. He has done this before!

It was not on the agenda. David's own toxic personal agenda was more important to him. This was a premeditated attack on the BMDC!

I have heard that he has done this in other organizations. I can personally testify that his misleadership brought much pain and disruption to the GRP.

Because of his toxic misleadership, BMDC's email list has been dominated by this toxic debate. Our collective energies have stopped being focused on wars, climate catastrophes (Have you been breathing in the toxic chemicals from the fires in Canada?), the attacks on immigrants, the attacks on the working class, etc.

Our Trans Siblings are being attacked. They are being murdered. The right to be who they are are under massive attack. Yes by the Republicans. And shamefully under attack right here in the BMDC.

Allowing our Trans Siblings to be attacked at our meetings and on our email lists has damaged BMDC before this recent explosion. Now Stevie is our most recent comrade who has announced his departure. For those of us who know Stevie, he is a wonderful person and a wonderful comrade. 

I want Stevie to come back. I want others who have left to come back. They will not come back until this toxic cancer is removed.

David and Jane have had a toxic presence in our group. They have shown no capacity to learn or even control their venom.

I request that addressing transphobia in the BMDC be the first important agenda item at our meeting next Sunday.

We have to decide "whoose side are we on!"

Women have the right to control their bodies including having an abortion if they chose. Not debateable in the BMDC!

We oppose racist pollice brutality. No, we do not include, "Blue Lives Matter".

6 Million Jews were murdered. We do not provide space at our meetings and the use of our email lists for "holocaust deniers".

We support immigrant rights. Not debateable!

What is the BMDC agenda? It includes Trans Rights!

David has his own toxic transphobic agenda. Does he ever ask that his agenda be placed on our agenda? Never! That would at least be transparent and honest.

For those of us who attend BMDC meetings and whenever David attends, we do not know when he will drop his toxic bomb. What we do know is that another bomb is coming. 

This is unhealthy. This is sick..

For at least some of us, this must stop!

At our next meeting next Sunday, BMDC must decide who we are.

"Whose side are we on?"

And they came after our Trans Siblllings, what will we do?

Love,

Mike Heichman

On Jun 11, 2023, at 6:51 PM, "Steve Downie\" (via bmdc Mailing List)" <bmdc@lists.riseup.net> <bmdc@lists.riseup.net> wrote:

I am leaving The Boston MayDay Coalition. Effective immediately. I'm tired of the transphobic shit. I am tired of the ridiculous arguments defending the transphobia. David is an absolute jackass and so is Jane. I will not be attached to this BS. Do not reach out to me and ask if I'm joining any future meetings. Do not reach out to me asking me to take up roles or tasks for future events you are planning.

I am done with this group

Sayonara assholes!


Stevie Downie

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